B is for BDSM

Day 2 of the Spanking Blog Challenge

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I’m going to bet that more than a few of my fellow bloggers partaking in this challenge will have BDSM for their B entry.

While BDSM is definitely not for everyone, I think we all have at least a tiny little fantasy about it. Have you ever wondered what it would be like to be tied up, spread-eagled out on the bed, and have your partner do all sorts of delicious things to you? What if you added a blindfold?

What would it be like to be tied up, blindfolded, and have no idea of what was coming next? It could be a series of feather soft caresses on your body – a body that is super sensitive because you’re lying there in anticipation of the next sensation.

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Perhaps it will be the sting of the belt across your bottom, or the burn of the cane. If you’re on your back, maybe it will the pinch of nipple clamps.  Or maybe there won’t be any pain at all. Maybe it will all be nothing more than you and your body being worshipped with gentle kisses, soft touches, and words of love.

I must admit the whole idea of being tied up scares me. Ever since I read Gerald’s Game by Stephen King about a woman who is handcuffed to the bed by her husband in his game of bondage, the idea scares the you know what out of me. I don’t want to spoil the book for anyone who hasn’t read it yet, but her husband has a heart attack and there she is, stuck in a cabin during the off-season with no one to hear her cries of help. Of course, in true Stephen King fashion, the poor woman begins hearing things and the reader is left to determine what is real or what is just all in her head.

There’s much more to BDSM than my few examples and I know I will be hopping around on the blogs below to see who else is writing about BDSM.

A is for ALPHA MALES

Welcome to Day 1 of the Spanking Blog Challenge.

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So what is an Alpha Male? Is he a big, brawny man that makes other men back away from him? No, I don’t think so. There are alpha males that aren’t big and brawny.

Is he the kind of guy who pushes his way through a crowd of people to get where he’s going? No, that’s not it either. That would just be rude. An alpha male has self-confidence and he doesn’t have to push his way through. He can simply walk through a crowd saying, “Pardon me,” or “Excuse me,” and the people will let him pass.

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So what qualities are these that make both men and women recognize the alpha male when they meet him? Self-confidence is probably the main one but should not be confused with cocky. The alpha knows what he wants and he usually gets it. But he gets what he wants without being a bully, without lying and cheating, without stealing and hurting other people. There’s an aura about the alpha male that make others recognize that he is a leader, this is someone who can solve the problem, this is someone who will step in and take charge of the situation and make sure it is handled efficiently.

The alpha male is strong. Not necessarily physically strong (though many are) but mentally strong.  They’re ambitious and want to win all challenges. There’s a certain charisma about them that draws women to them.  And not just women, but other men. People like a leader and let’s face it, most people are followers, not leaders.

He’s not weak, arrogant, or conceited. He may be vain, he may be proud, he may be tolerant. But tolerant doesn’t mean he’ll take your crap. He’ll listen to your ideas and if they’re good ones, he may choose to use them. But if he doesn’t see the value in your ideas or plans, he’ll come right out and say so.

Of course, all alphas don’t display all of the same characteristics. What about your man? Which of these traits does he have?

Be sure to visit the other blogs joining in this challenge. I know, there’s a lot of them. Still, pop in on the ones you have time for. I know you’ll be glad you did!

Happy Memorial Day!!

MemorialDayThis is the weekend the United States honors all our veterans. So as you go about your holiday weekend, enjoying the extra time with your family and friends, grilling yummy food in your backyard, going for a picnic, or any of the other things we do to enjoy this long weekend, please pause for a moment and remember those who made it possible for us to be free. Remember the fallen men and women; think about their families who are missing their loved ones. Remember the men and women who are serving their country around the world, many in places where they will not enjoy a holiday weekend. Remember why we are free and the price so many paid for that freedom.

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Spank Her Very Much – an excerpt

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Lead in to the scene: After Gina discovers the man who spanked her is nothing more than another burglar like herself, they begin working together and splitting the proceeds. They have planned a big job for the coming weekend and Gina uncharacteristically all tense and worried about it. She goes shopping to try and relax, but comes home still full of tension. Brent knows how to get that tension out and takes Gina to the bedroom. Other than a few playful smacks during sex, Brent had not spanked her since the first time. He knows he’ll have to convince her to submit to a stress relieve spanking.

Excerpt:  Brent put his hands on her shoulders and said, “I know of a way that will get you back to feeling one hundred percent your normal calm self. But you have to trust me. Do you think you can do that?”

Gina gazed at him with a perplexed look on her face. “What are you talking about?”

“Do you want to get rid of all that pent up tension?”

“Of course I do. But how can you get rid of my tensions?”

“I’m going to put you over my knee and spank you. It’ll be hard and long, but in the end you’ll feel much better, and all those nerves will be calmed down.”

Gina tried to step back, but he kept a firm grip on her shoulders.

“No way,” she said. “There’s no way I’m going to let you spank me the way you did the first time we met.”

“Gina, you have to trust me. I know what I’m talking about; I’ve seen it happen many times. Let me spank you and then we’ll have the best mind-blowing sex and I’ll guarantee you’ll be back to your normal self.”

Gina didn’t answer him for a long time. Yeah, a few slaps on the ass during sex added to the excitement. Sure, they were fun. But there was nothing fun about that first spanking in the mansion when they had met. For the life of her she couldn’t imagine how a spanking would erase all this pent up tension, nerves, and emotion she had going on.

She didn’t think she could just passively place herself over his lap and let him start swinging away on her ass. But what if he’s right? What if it works?

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Spank Her Hard – a short excerpt

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Spank Her Hard is the story of a young mother trying to work her way through nursing school. She makes the tough decision to go to work as an escort and meets Joe Ryan as one of her first clients. This excerpt continues from the first one I posted on this book. You can read it here.

Francine didn’t know what to do. She sure could use that extra five hundred dollars. That would be a total of thirteen hundred dollars for the night. All for her; she didn’t have to give the service any cut from the five hundred. It was definitely not an amount of money to scoff at.

There were so many things she and her little girls needed. She knew her mom was struggling with finances, even though she never complained, and this would be such a boost for all of them.

But to let someone hit her? Could she do that? What if he got carried away and hurt her? Hell, what if his main intent was to hurt her? No, she couldn’t believe he’d really want to hurt her. He was just too nice a guy.

Not one moment at any point in this evening with Joe had she felt any warning flags or discomfort with his demeanor. She had been totally relaxed and at ease the entire time once he understood she didn’t really want to talk about things too personal. Other than the natural nervousness she still had from being new to this business, she was one hundred per cent comfortable with Joe.

Still, he wanted to hit her. OK, maybe hit was too strong a word. He wanted to spank her. Spank her like a bad little girl. Spank her until her ass was red; ‘a nice rosy red’ were his exact words.

She heard the door open. Joe was back. He came and sat down on the sofa across from her and just looked at her with his brow raised and asked, “Well?”

Blurb: Francine is a young single mom, living with her mother, trying to support her twin daughters and go to nursing school. She takes a job at an escort service hoping to make enough money that she’ll only have to work a few nights a week, giving her time to study and time to spend with her kids. She meets a client who is too good looking and too much of a gentleman to have to use an escort service. She finds out why he uses professional escorts on her first assignment with him. He has a little bit of a kinky side in the bedroom. He’ll pay extra, but is Francine willing to accommodate him?

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Spanking A to Z Blogging Challenge

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Spanking Romance Reviews is sponsoring this event and I signed up for it. Yeah, me – I signed up. I have a hard time blogging once a week and often two or three weeks go by without me posting anything. So now I’m going to try and blog for 26 out of the 30 days in June. Oh boy – shall we start laughing now?

Life just always seems to get in the way. I have two other jobs besides writing and one of those jobs has been keeping me really busy for the last few months. Which is good – I look at it as job security. I’m not complaining. But I would like to blog more. So we’ll see how I do on this challenge. I will try to not let other things interfere.

I’m going to cheat a little bit. But I don’t think it can really be called cheating. First, I’m going to work on my posts and get them lined up to publish automatically. From what I read, lots of bloggers write all their posts once a week and schedule them to publish when they want. So let me correct myself, I’m not cheating. I’m just taking advantage of an available tool. I hope to have at least half of my posts scheduled before the end of May. Then maybe I can skate through the second half in June without freaking out about being a failure.

Below is a list of everyone who has signed up so far. Join us if you haven’t already. Or just wait and visit all the fantastic blogs.

 

Interview with a Dom – snippet

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Interview with a Dom:  Kylie goes back to Alex’s home to learn more about his way of life and his dungeon. He suggests a weekend experience for her to become more familiar his world. Seeing her hesitate, he proposes a ‘practice session’ that very night.

Excerpt:  While she was thinking about whether or not to leave, Alex poured more wine for both of them. “If you’re agreeable, we could have a small session tonight. Sort of a trial run.”

She hadn’t expected that! She looked at Alex and said, “Oh…uh…I don’t know. I’m not prepared for anything like that.”

“Anything like what?” Alex asked with a smile.

“Um…well…uh…you know. Uh…kinky stuff.”

“We will do very little tonight.” He said. Since she had not outright refused, he thought she just might be ready for a little bit of play. “When you’re finished with your wine, you will go to The Room and undress. You will kneel on the mat at the foot of the bed and wait for me.

“Uh…you mean the dungeon?”

“You’ve been researching on the internet. Some people call it a dungeon, some call it a playroom. I prefer to refer to it simply as The Room. And please do not forget to address me as Sir again.”

“Oh…yes Sir. Sorry Sir.”

What the hell was she doing? Was she really going to go in that room and strip? The thought was scary and, if her pussy was any kind of indicator, oh so exciting!

She took a sip of her wine and watched Alex. Then she took another sip. It was almost gone. Then she’d have to make up her mind. Leave or go to The Room.

Blurb: After losing her husband in a tragic car accident, Kylie needs to find a way to increase her income to support herself. She’s been a struggling self-published author of romance novels for several years, but she’s not making enough money. Kylie decides to write an erotic romance in the hopes of increasing sales. She answers an ad on a BDSM website and hooks up with Alex who says he’s willing to teach her all about the BDSM lifestyle she wants to write about. He suggests that she become his sub for a weekend, after all, there’s nothing like hands on experience to give her the knowledge she needs. Will Kylie agree?

 

Spank Her Again – teaser

A snippet from Spank Her Again

Spank Her AgainThings are getting hot and heavy between Spence and Maggie. But Spence wants a domestic discipline relationship and Maggie is afraid. She’s just left an abusive husband and has no plans to ever let a man hurt her again.

Excerpt:  “Maggie, honey. This is happening all too fast. You know what kind of relationship I want and I’m not sure you’re ready for that.” Spence’s voice was hoarse with desire. His cock was hard and throbbing. He wanted to sink it deep inside her pussy and make her come all over him.

Maggie knew he was talking about his spanking obsession. Right now she didn’t want to think about that, she just wanted that massive cock deep inside her. She looked into his eyes and said, “Spence, I want you inside me now. But I’ve just walked out on an abusive man and I don’t ever plan on letting a man hurt me again.”

Spence gathered her in his arms and kissed her. “Maggie, I’d never abuse you. Spanking is not abuse, it’s a corrective measure. Yes, it does sting, but it’s a sting to remind you not to do things that could be harmful to you. I don’t like seeing that fear in your eyes.”

“I can’t help it, Spence. I’m afraid. I’ve never been spanked and the whole idea of spanking an adult seems weird to me.”

Their desire had ebbed somewhat with the talk of spanking. Spence still had a hard-on, but it wasn’t as urgent now to ram it into her. He had an idea, but wasn’t sure she’d go along with it.

“Maggie, let me spank you now. We’ll call it a practice spanking to help you get over your fear.”

Her eyes opened wide and Spence saw the fear in them. He rubbed her arms gently and said, “It’ll be a light spanking, no pain, I promise you. I want that fear to leave your eyes. I’m not the brute you left.”

Blurb:

Maggie leaves her abusive husband and drives with no destination in mind, all she wants is to get far away from him. She ends up in the small town of Blue Moon, Wyoming and finds herself in the medical clinic after fainting in the grocery store. She’s under Dr. Robert Spencer’s care and he doesn’t think Maggie is taking care of herself. Spence believes in the domestic discipline lifestyle and is ready to see to it that Maggie starts taking better care of herself, even if it means putting her over his knee and reddening her backside. But Maggie just left an abusive relationship and is unsure if she wants to get involved with a man who wants to spank her.

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Spank Her Now – an Excerpt

Here’s another snippet from my book Spank Her Now

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I’ll give you a rundown on the scene first:

Stephen and Eve have just had a bit of an argument over the provocative emails he’s been getting. Eve (who is actually the one sending the emails) pretends to be sick of the entire subject and tells him to send a reply asking to be removed from the email list and then forget about it. She hangs up on him and he tries to call her back several times but she isn’t picking up her phone.

Excerpt:  Her phone rang, she saw it was Stephen. Eve decided not to answer it. Let him get mad.

Stephen called Eve a few more times, but she wouldn’t pick up. He figured she was good and pissed now. Maybe he’d just give her that spanking when he got home tonight.

Eve was at her computer sending another email to Stephen. The title was, “WILL SHE GET SPANKED TONIGHT?” The message area was blank.

Stephen heard the email ding and looked to see what it was. When he read the title he opened the email, saw the message area was blank, and hit the reply button. He left the title the same and in the message area he wrote, “Please take me off your email list. Yes, she will get spanked tonight.”

He hesitated for a brief moment and then hit the send button. Stephen took a deep breath, satisfied with his decision. He wasn’t sure how he was going to do this; he’d never struck a woman in his life. But Eve definitely needed a sound spanking and he decided he would be the one to administer it.

Eve received the reply and thought, Oh no! What have I done? But even as she thought it, her legs squeezed together in anticipation. Did he really mean it? Was he really going to spank her tonight? How would he do it? Would he strip her naked first? Would he leave her panties on or spank her bare bottom?

Stephen spent the rest of his day thinking similar thoughts. How would he approach her to spank her? Should he announce that he would be giving her a spanking? Or should he just get her naked and then take her over his knee? Should he leave her panties on? No, this would be a bare-assed spanking. One of the emails suggested spanking her until her ass was cherry red. That wouldn’t happen if her ass was covered. Oh god, could he really do this? But even as he wondered, he felt his cock twitch with anticipation.

Blurb:   Stephen and Eve have been married for fifteen years. Their marriage has become boring, their sex life is boring. Eve wants to spice things up and begins sending Stephen anonymous emails with titles like, ‘Does Your Wife Need a Spanking?’ But Stephen doesn’t open them because he’s concerned about getting a computer virus. The emails keep coming and finally Stephen decides to open one. Eve gets much more than she ever bargained for when Stephen decides Eve’s attitude needs adjusting and he takes her over his knee for a long, hard spanking.

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