March is question month and I’m open to answering just about anything, so ask away and I’ll tell you my deepest and darkest secrets. Which really aren’t all that deep and dark.
You can ask about my books, my personal life, my awesome relationship, or even how wonderful our weather is here in sunny Arizona this time of year.
Those of you in the mid-west or back east may not want to hear of our 80 degree day today and the perfect cloudless sky we have. It really is lovely.
Off the top of my head there’s only one thing I can think of that I will not tell and that is my weight. There are only two people other than myself who know what I weigh; my doctor and her nurse. There’s no way I’m telling anyone else.
I’m hoping this will be fun so start asking!
Hello Holla, How has DD changed your relationship for the better? Are there any changes that made your relationship worse?
Thanks for the question, Lynn. I guess I should explain that our relationship is more along the lines of TTWD than DD. We don’t really do discipline here. Spanking is for fun as far as we’re concerned. We do our best to treat each other with respect. We talk things over and make decisions together. If we can’t agree we each state our case to try and convince the other and then put it aside and think about it. We like to think we’re adult enough to see when one idea is better than the other and go with that. The key is respect and a willingness to acknowledge that your way may not always be the best way. We don’t really have rules though I know what will upset him and I try not to do those things to keep the peace. Most of those things are regarding safety so they’re really just common sense.
I can’t think of anything that’s made our relationship worse. We didn’t make a conscience decision to live like this, it just worked out that way and our relationship is so much better than most of our friends. There are very few arguments and we’ve been married for close to 40 years. So it’s definitely working for us.
Hi Holla,
Just wanted to ask how long you have been writing and whether you were always interested in spanking? My favourite story of yours is Withdrawing Consent and it was one of the first spanking stories I read, but you seem able to turn your hand to many different scenarios. I am intrigued as you appear to have a very similar dynamic to us and I think we are similar ages which I find very comforting at the present time. Also, how do you do some of your research (I am saying that very much tongue in cheek). LOL! You are a prolific writer – do you ever get time to read yourself, and if so, what type of books other than spanking stories do you like?
Hugs
Ami